Matrimonial law in Delhi — your questions answered
Divorce, custody, maintenance and domestic violence in the Delhi Family Courts, answered directly.
How long does a mutual consent divorce take in Delhi?
Typically six to eighteen months, and sometimes less where the court waives the statutory cooling-off period.
A petition under Section 13B of the Hindu Marriage Act proceeds in two motions with a six-month gap between them. The Supreme Court has confirmed that period can be waived where the parties have already lived separately for a long time, the settlement is genuine and reconciliation is not realistic. Delhi Family Courts do grant waivers, but they examine the settlement closely first.
What is the difference between mutual consent and contested divorce?
Mutual consent means both spouses agree to the divorce and to its terms; contested means one party asks the court to dissolve the marriage on a statutory ground.
Contested petitions are pleaded on grounds such as cruelty, desertion or adultery and require evidence, cross-examination and usually several years. Mutual consent is faster, cheaper and far less damaging — which is why the settlement negotiation is often the most valuable work in a matrimonial file.
Can my spouse refuse to give me a divorce?
They can refuse to consent, but they cannot indefinitely prevent a divorce.
If consent is withheld, the route is a contested petition on a statutory ground. It takes longer and requires proof, but the outcome does not depend on the other side's agreement. Irretrievable breakdown is not yet an independent ground under the Hindu Marriage Act, though the Supreme Court can dissolve a marriage on that basis under Article 142.
How is maintenance decided, and how much is usually awarded?
It is decided on the income, assets and reasonable needs of both parties and the standard of living during the marriage — there is no fixed percentage.
Courts look at salary slips, tax returns, bank statements and lifestyle evidence. Interim maintenance can be sought while the case runs, under Section 144 BNSS or under the Hindu Marriage Act, and is usually decided far sooner than the main petition. Concealing income is the fastest way to lose credibility with a Family Court.
Who gets custody of the children?
Whichever arrangement serves the welfare of the child — that is the paramount consideration, above either parent's claim.
Courts weigh who has actually been caring for the child, stability of schooling and home, the child's own preference where they are old enough to express one, and each parent's capacity to provide. Custody is not a reward for winning the divorce, and conduct allegations against the other spouse carry far less weight than parents expect.
Does the mother automatically get custody of a young child?
No, though for a child below five the mother is ordinarily preferred.
That preference is a starting point, not a rule, and it yields to evidence about the child's actual welfare. Fathers do obtain custody where the circumstances support it. Visitation and shared arrangements are increasingly common in Delhi Family Courts.
My spouse has filed a case under Section 85 BNS. What should I do?
Apply for anticipatory bail immediately and defend the complaint on its merits.
Section 85 BNS is the successor to Section 498A IPC — cruelty to a married woman. It is non-bailable, which is why protection from arrest is the first priority. These complaints usually arrive alongside divorce, maintenance and domestic violence proceedings and should be handled as one connected strategy, not as separate unrelated cases.
Can a criminal matrimonial case be withdrawn if we settle?
Yes — commonly by quashing under Section 528 BNSS before the Delhi High Court once a genuine settlement is recorded.
Matrimonial disputes are private in character, and the High Court regularly quashes such proceedings where the parties have settled voluntarily. The settlement terms, the mutual consent petition and the quashing are usually sequenced together so that neither side is exposed.
What is a domestic violence case, and how is it different from Section 85 BNS?
A proceeding under the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 is civil in nature and seeks protection, residence, maintenance and compensation orders — not imprisonment.
Section 85 BNS is a criminal prosecution. The two often run in parallel. A DV petition can result in a residence order affecting who stays in the shared household, which is frequently the most immediately consequential order in the whole dispute.
What is stridhan, and can I recover it?
Stridhan is property given to a woman before, during or after marriage which remains absolutely hers — and yes, it can be recovered.
It covers jewellery, gifts and money given to her. Recovery is pursued through a civil claim, through the DV Act, or as part of a settlement. The practical difficulty is proof, so photographs, invoices, wedding video footage and bank records matter more than assertions.
Where are matrimonial cases heard in Delhi?
Before the Family Courts attached to the district complexes — Rohini, Tis Hazari, Saket, Dwarka and Karkardooma.
Jurisdiction usually follows where the parties last resided together or where the wife currently resides. Appeals and transfer petitions go to the Delhi High Court, and transfers between States are decided by the Supreme Court.
My spouse filed the case in another city. Can it be moved to Delhi?
Yes, by a transfer petition — to the Delhi High Court for a transfer within Delhi, or to the Supreme Court for a transfer between States.
Courts are generally sympathetic to a wife who would face hardship travelling with a small child, and to any party who can show genuine difficulty. Transfer petitions are decided on convenience and hardship, not on the merits of the marriage dispute.
Can I claim a share in property in my spouse's name?
Not automatically — Indian law does not recognise automatic community of matrimonial property.
A claim depends on showing contribution to the purchase, or on the property being held in your name or jointly. What is available instead is permanent alimony, a residence order under the DV Act, and a negotiated share as part of a settlement. This is one of the most misunderstood areas in matrimonial practice.
How much does a divorce cost?
It depends almost entirely on whether it is contested, and fees are agreed in writing before work begins.
A mutual consent divorce is a defined, limited piece of work. A contested petition runs for years with evidence and cross-examination, and costs accordingly. This is the strongest practical argument for testing settlement seriously before litigating.
Can I remarry immediately after the decree?
Not immediately — you should wait until the appeal period has expired, or until any appeal is decided.
The appeal period is ordinarily ninety days from the decree. Remarrying while an appeal is live risks the second marriage being challenged. A decree that is not under appeal and whose limitation has run is safe to rely on.
What if my spouse hides their income to reduce maintenance?
Courts can and do draw adverse inferences, and there are tools to compel disclosure.
Both parties file affidavits of assets and income in Delhi matrimonial proceedings. Where the disclosure is plainly false, tax returns, bank statements, provident fund records, property records and lifestyle evidence can be summoned. Judges are experienced at recognising understated income.
Do I have to attend every hearing?
Not every one — exemption from personal appearance can be sought for many dates.
Attendance is usually required for mediation, recording of evidence and the two motions in a mutual consent petition. For clients working abroad, hearings are planned so that travel is concentrated into as few trips as possible.
Is mediation worth trying?
Usually yes — Delhi courts refer most matrimonial matters to mediation, and a large proportion settle there.
Mediation is confidential, nothing said in it can be used later, and it costs a fraction of a contested trial. Even where the marriage cannot be saved, mediation often resolves custody and maintenance, which converts a multi-year contest into a mutual consent petition.

